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How many days a week should I lift weights?
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The short answer
Three to four days a week is Nikkiey's core recommendation for women over 40: 30 to 45 minutes per session, built on compound lifts and progressive overload, with walking on off days and seven to eight hours of sleep. Lifting six or seven days a week, she says, breaks down muscle faster than you can rebuild it.
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Nikkiey's exact prescription: how many days, how long, and what to do in each session
Plays from 22:41 · Ep. 398: How Women Over 40 Lose Fat When the Scale Won't Move
Nikkiey on three to four days and why she now lifts less in her current season
Plays from 18:22 · Ep. 294: Why Cardio Isn't Burning Your Belly Fat After 40
Leah on accepting that three to four days, not five or six, got her results
Plays from 23:48 · Ep. 355: Why Eating More Helped Me Lose Fat After 40
Sal Di Stefano on why just two strength sessions a week can be enough
Plays from 55:10 · Ep. 92: How to Build Discipline for Fitness, With Sal Di Stefano
Nikkiey on why fewer focused training days beat working out every day
Plays from 12:43 · Ep. 213: Fitness Mistakes Women Over 40 Should Stop Making
The full answer
If you have been training five, six or seven days a week and not seeing results, that is the plan, not you. On Ep. 398, Nikkiey explains that without recovery your body produces more cortisol, which she links to fat storage around the midsection. Rest days are not lazy days. They are building days, when muscle actually grows. Her recovery plan is simple: three to four lifting days, walking on the other days if you like to move, and seven to eight hours of sleep, because growth hormone peaks in deep sleep.
The episodes give a range rather than one rigid number:
- On Ep. 92, Sal Di Stefano says strength training works in low doses, and twice a week for 45 minutes done appropriately can have profound effects on strength and metabolism.
- On Ep. 228 and Ep. 213, Nikkiey puts the number at three to five or four to five focused sessions, with four as a good target.
- On Ep. 355, client Leah was used to five to six days from past trainers. Her WarriorBabe coach moved her to three to four days with rest, and suggested sprint intervals instead of longer workouts if she wanted more.
Nikkiey also shares on Ep. 294 that in her current season, while rebalancing her hormones and thyroid, she lifts two or three times a week plus a day of yoga and a day of Pilates. She used to train seven days a week. Your number can shift with your season, and if hormones or a medical condition are in the picture, work with your doctor.
What matters more than the count is how you train. Use compound movements and progressive overload: the last two to three reps of a set should feel challenging, and when they don't, add weight. If you are a cardio lover, she suggests easing in by swapping one cardio session a week for strength training.
From The WarriorBabe Show with Nikkiey Stott. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.
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