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Manifestation Mastery: Align, Heal, and Create the Life You Deserve w/ Candace Tranter

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In this episode of The WarriorBabe Show, Nikkiey Stott sits down with Candace Tranter, an Integrative Energy Healer and Elite Performance Coach with...

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00:00Real quick, the only ask I could ever have of you guys is to help spread the word so we can help more women lose body fat, build muscle, reach their goals, and feel insanely confident. And the only way we can do that is if you rate, review, and share this podcast. So the single thing I ask for you to do is if you could leave a review. It will take you 10 seconds, and it will mean the absolute world to me and may change the world of someone else. Every single morning, spend 5 to 10 minutes. What are the non-ideals?

00:30What are the belief systems that are in the way? What are those mindsets? What are the words that you're speaking out? Getting super aware. We have to have awareness first, right? What is going on, everybody? Welcome back to The WarriorBabe Show. And today, I am so excited to introduce you all to a very, very, very special guest.

01:00Just for a little bit of context and also to know who you will be listening to today over the last three months. I'm so excited to share her with you all. I feel like this is just God's work right now. Over the last couple of months, I've been on a very deeply transformative journey, and not just in my personal growth, but in understanding energy and understanding emotions and how all of those shape who I am and how I live my life. And this journey wouldn't have been possible without the incredible guidance and the support of who I have here today.

01:34She is my energy coach. This is Kansas. And to give you guys a little bit of background on what she has done in her work, she's an integrative energy healer, and she's an elite performance coach with over 23 years of experience. She specializes in guiding individuals and couples through profound personal transformations using techniques like cellular alignment, advanced breath work, and customized transformation blueprints. Let me say that one more time. And customized transformation blueprints.

02:05Mouthful. Kansas is truly, I feel like, personally put on this earth to do the Lord's work. And it's such a pleasure to have you here today. Without you, this journey, I don't think I would be able to go through it alone, but working with you has been nothing short of amazing. So welcome to the show. Wow. Thank you so much. And my heart is so full and such an honor to hold that space. And, you know, it is God's work. And I literally am a tool that God uses through me.

02:39So I can't take all that beautiful as my own, but definitely just to hold space. And it can be a scary journey for sure, right? As soon as we start bringing all the mess up, if we don't have the right tools, it can really create chaos in our world. So I am honored and I'm excited to have this conversation today and just adore you. Thank you for having me. Of course. Of course. All right. So can you share what first inspired you to step into this field and how your journey as an energy healer even began?

03:12Sure. You know, I always tease my sister when I was really young. I was terrified of the dark. And she, when my mom would go away, she would make me tickle her back for hours on end to be able to sleep in the bed with her. And I always say that's what made me become a massage therapist. We tease today. And she's like, oh, I'm so sorry. You know, she was, you know. But just as a very young girl from, I remember probably around nine years old, even maybe younger, I just had this natural ability to lay my hands on somebody.

03:44If they had a headache, I would just massage their head. I just remember being really young, having this ability to use my touch and just give love in that way. And it wasn't until much later on in my life that I actually became a massage therapist, 23. Actually, this is almost 24 years ago. I hung my license last year to really spread out and do bigger work for sure. But I got certified as a Reiki practitioner, Reiki master.

04:17And I just got so fascinated. First of all, if someone's getting a massage and you're not dealing with the emotional, mental, physical, spiritual side of it, that physical ailment didn't seem to go away. So when I started working with energy and emotions and I saw like, wow, if I go to the emotion and I just acknowledge that emotion, then that emotion can transform. So I just have gone on this incredible journey. Also, I was in a very abusive relationship at the time, a very violent relationship.

04:51And what I noticed with my own self, I could walk into that room and completely shut off what I was going through. I could be super present and I could be available for someone else. And that to me was very liberating. I had a space where I could detach from what I was going through, what I was experiencing. And that can almost become the addiction, right? I had peace there. So it's just been this amazing journey.

05:22I studied Qigong and breath work and any way I could find a way to get to the energy that was holding that person back, identify it, acknowledge it, release it, let go and replace with God's love, the body would transform. And then just over time, the modalities that I've just studied along the way have just got bigger, stronger, more impactful. And it just grows. It never ends. That's what I love about this journey.

05:53So there's a never ending way to access the body, mind and spirit. And we just have this much of an insight to it. So it's just amazing. Impactful was the perfect word in terms of everything that you do. And I'm also just selfishly so excited to have you here today to hear that journey that you've been through. I didn't know all of everything that you've encountered and done, but it makes so much more sense in terms of how you show up now in the work that you do for people.

06:24One of the things that I realized along talking to people about this, and I would love your insight on, is many people struggle with manifestation and they don't feel like it works for them. And whenever I'm like, you know, you just try and envision the person you want to be. And some people can't hold visions of that. Why do you think that is? And what's often missing in the approach that people take? You know, recently, maybe in the last year, one of my mentors, Tyler Watson, his alignment technique is I got certified.

07:00Anything that I really transform my own life in, I dive deep and I want it in my toolbox. But he actually has a formula and I wrote it down on a piece of paper early on just in case this came up. So this is a formula and I know not everyone can see it, but you is unstoppable. So that's the amount of time it takes you to manifest something into your reality. With the skill, we all have to have a skill, even if a mom is staying at home with her children, right? She has to have the skill to manage all that.

07:31With skill, work and focus is going to give you the result of the manifestation, right? So however you are making the effort and the focus is going to create the manifestation. But what happens if you're putting 100% effort in, but only getting a 10% result? And this is what happens with people when they get tripped up with manifestation. So our bodies are going to do everything in their power to make sure we're safe from getting hurt again.

08:19So maybe someone started the manifestation. I remember when the secret first came out, I was going to live in this multimillion dollar home. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that. But it's so far from the reality of where I was at that there's sabotage that happens in that process. Because there's so many fight-flight responses that are not getting identified. So then the body is going to sabotage it. And then people generally will stop actually going for the thing that they love. And then it doesn't work, right?

08:50So just so everybody understands from what you just shared, because a lot of people are either only listening in audio or maybe some are listening and watching on YouTube too as well. But can you hold that? Sign up one more time for me. Yeah. Should have tried to write it backwards. No, it's okay. No, it's perfect. Okay. You is us. Unstoppable. Oh, you is unstoppable. Yeah. The amount of effort and time it takes you to get your manifestation.

09:23Okay. And that equals the skill of what is required. And in parentheses, it's W plus F, which is work plus focus. Yep. So if we're putting in all this work and the focus with our skills and the result you're putting is not matching, then underneath that is going to have those allergies and addictions. Okay. And we'll go deeper into that as we have the conversation because people are not going to understand that, right?

09:53But those are the fight-flight responses that the body is going to keep you safe from getting the thing you actually desire because somewhere in your past there was pain. So the body is going to do everything possible to make sure that doesn't happen. And it could be just one gland, one organ, one belief system, one system in the body that just needs to be identified. It's like a distortion in the field, released and replaced. And then there's movement forward.

10:24That makes so much sense now. I'm tying it to my own experience. So much sense. Exactly. Don't give you all of it. You can't retain all of it in your mind. I'm just doing things with you, supporting you in the process. But yeah, once you clear those allergies and addictions, there's no more fight-flight response to prevent you from having it. It makes 100% the way my brain is processing it right now is like surviving or thriving. Absolutely. So we're thinking we'll dive into fight and flight because before you, I was in still a little bit today.

10:59It's definitely a lot of – it was a lot of fight. And now we're learning to be more flight. And it's a process, right? And it's a gentle process. Those fight-flight responses have kept us safe our whole life. I mean, for me personally, I was born in Zimbabwe and Harare at the time of the Rhodesian War. We slept under our bed with my mom with a gun to keep us safe. And we were refugees. We had to leave there with our bags and nothing, you know. And that is the world I was born into.

11:30So fight-flight responses energetically carry through. My mom as a protection, you know, sitting there protecting us, fearing our lives. My dad. And, you know, we're around those environments where we're also absorbing somebody else's fight-flight response when we're very little, right? We're having those experiences and we're absorbing what our parents are going through. So unless we identify, some of it's not even ours, right? We're living from this space. I don't know if you ever heard that story about the meatloaf.

12:01And there's a grandma, mom, and the daughter in the kitchen. And they're cutting off the edges. And every generation did it. And the grandma's like, well, no, we didn't have a pen that it fit in. So it's like, what is yours? What isn't yours? And really just getting curious with all that. Ladies, are you feeling frustrated with body changes you're experiencing during menopause? It's time to take control. If you're between 45 and 65 years old and tired of struggling with body fat and muscle loss, Warrior Babe is here for you.

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13:09That's warriorbabe.com forward slash apply. All right. Let's get back to the show. I love that. Get rid of all the generational traumas that we have. Do you think, along with like, which we'll dive into fight and flight, but do you think that there's a deeper energetic or emotional alignment that needs to happen for it to truly work, for the manifestation process to truly work? Do you feel like?

13:40Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah. I see your mind still going in there. So, you know, I want you to imagine this, right? If, and I know, again, people are not always seeing, they're not watching, but you know, when you see those art studios and you see a three-dimensional piece of art, and then when you turn it sideways, there's all these layers of pieces that make it look physical. I mean, a three-dimensional view from the front. Have you seen those?

14:10I think so. Okay, well, let's just imagine, let's imagine a tapestry, right? On the back of the tapestry are all these, it's messy, right? So, again, going back to the three-dimensional piece of art, you turn it sideways, and there's all these slivers, like when I'm looking in somebody's energetic field, there's all these distortions that happen, emotional trauma and experiences that create these distortions. So, now, if we don't deal with these, or accept, love them, appreciate them for what they've done and supported us until this moment in time, all we're now doing is having a perception of what's possible in the future from a past result.

14:54So, all we're going to do now is put these layers of frequencies and distortions in the future. We know it. It keeps us safe. And even though, for me in the past, it was easier to be loved than hurt because I knew how to be hurt and I knew how to survive in that space. To actually be loved, supported, and held space for, no ways would I allow myself to be there because it's terrifying. Can somebody actually love me? It's terrifying. But, so what happens is we put all these past experiences into the future and then we live into that.

15:30So, even though our mind and our heart know we want something different, those emotional energies and frequencies that are keeping you safe, they're going to be something that you're living into all the time. So, we want to come from a space where all of it, and we're in a time right now where the frequency on the planet is so incredibly awesome to be alive, but it's also incredibly terrifying and it's a wild ride. But, I'd rather, to me, I'd rather clear out any and all karmic debt that I never have to.

16:03I can live, bring, God wants us to have heaven on earth. And to have heaven on earth, we have to come from this neutral, non-fight-flight response daily to the only way to predict your future is to create it. So, how do you want that future to look? How do you want it to feel? How do you want to step into it? But if you're coming from this scary space of fear, abandonment, I'm not good enough, all these things, your future is going to look the same over and over. And it's going to be frustrating.

16:34Extremely frustrating. I love that you just said that because I just took the time about an hour ago to record a podcast around self-worth. And that was one of the very similar phrase that you just said there I put into and I spoke to in the podcast where I said that if women are looking to achieve a goal from the mindset of lack, that they have to fix something that's wrong with their body, then they're going to burn out. They're going to get tired. They're going to lose motivation when the process gets really hard. Instead, looking at it from a, I'm already worthy as I am right now.

17:08And what I'm going to accomplish within this journey is just becoming a more confident version of myself or stronger version of myself. And it's like this book that I'm reading right now called Worthy from Jamie Lee, Jamie Curran Lima. Have you heard of that book before? Yeah. She says like along the way, which makes sense too, like, and I see it in our work together is through all of the things that you accomplish through life that you go through, you carry the same you along the way. And a lot of the things that people look to accomplish is like external validation and seeking that type of thinking that they're going to find their worth through that when really self-confidence and self-worth are completely different things.

17:51And this is like, we're already worthy. We're already enough. We're already lovable. And we need to understand that and understand the mess that comes with it. But if we want to get to our future self, we need to, you know, be aware of the word, the things that are the narratives that we're saying, but work with it in order to, I just lost my mind. Transfer, transform it. Yeah, no, perfect. And I love all that. And we are not broken. We made perfect, whole, complete in God.

18:22And going back to the outside need for validation or the love or all those things, it all has to happen internally. It's like this little garden that you're planting internally that you can now activate. Now, there's a dying off process too, right? So this version of you that's kept you so safe, now you're creating this future version of you. There's this in-between, gray, fuzzy, very uncomfortable, unstable space that you're dying.

18:54You're dying. You're literally dying to a version of yourself. And we want to kick and scream and hold on tightly. I'm dying. And you feel like it. You literally feel like you're dying because you really are. There's a part of you that's become, that's your identity, right? Sometimes we get addicted to being the victim. I mean, I was there. And there was times where I was a victim of some seriously horrific stuff. But I got stuck in being a victim of it.

19:24But there's that dying off period. And that is that messy in-between yucky space where radical trust, support, and using the processes and tools just to help the body. So there's that space in between, energetically visualizing, creating that future version of yourself. And that space in between, we have to help the physical body catch up to the manifestation. So all those little tools are helpful. Like we want to speed through. I want to speed through. I don't want to drag on. I don't want to sit in it.

19:55Like, let's go. Seriously. That's what's amazing about your work is like, I've come to you saying that I feel a certain way, which is like where I'm kind of like stuck in between or I'm uncomfortable. I'm scared. I feel like I'm dying. And then I talk to you and you energetically shift me. And that's how fast you're like, that's all it is. It's an energy shift. And I'm like, I feel great. Yeah, exactly. I feel like I'm going, I'm losing my mind, but I feel great. Yeah. Absolutely. So in that, like in the process, like there's a lot of subconscious patterns and there's a lot of past traumas that are, that are, that we go through and that we deal with.

20:30How do those patterns and traumas interfere with our ability to manifest the life that we desire? So we're looking at, so going back to fight flight responses, right? To looking at imagining an animal in the wild. It's under threat. It dashes, the heart rate elevates, the muscles tighten, the breath quickens, and it's gone. If you look at it in 30 minutes, there's no threat. The animal goes back into this coherent state. It's eating. Its babies are around. No problem. Us as humans tend to stay in that fight flight response.

21:04So when we are not coherent, coherency meaning the brain, the heart, and the gut are all in alignment, all in sync. And when we slow down that breath, we slow down the heartbeat, and we just get present, we have access to alpha brain states. When we're in that state, it's like a funnel coming down the top of our head. And information comes in, opportunities you can see more. So when we're in these fight flight responses, it's kind of like electrical wires all spazzed out.

21:34You see someone when they are out of that, in that state. They look spazzed out. So now the body, the mind, can't compartmentalize the information that it needs when it's incoherent. It has to come from the heart, and it has to come, the body has to be in alignment. So yes, we can manifest in that state, but it's going to be something that you don't want. So we want to get the body coherent, calm. And so, for example's sake, my son was in an incredibly terrible accident two years ago.

22:0815% chance of survival, worst brain injury you can imagine. And I was in the hospital working on him, and then I'd have patients to come to. In that time, they didn't know what was going on with me, but I had to be so coherent and available for the miracle that I'm performing on someone. Our God is through me, right? I'm the tool. But in that prayer, I'm thanking God that he's looked after. I know and visualize him coming out of that state.

22:40And that is the coherency, being able to see past the state that you're in right now and visualize and trust and know with that feeling that it's possible to have a different result. Doesn't matter what it looks like right now. So extremely important. So how would you, in terms of flight and fight, fight or fight response with that, like in the context of the stress, how does it specifically, like how can we stay aligned? Like how you're saying there, like how can we visualize that?

23:12How, when we're under a state of stress, how can we stay aligned with the energy of what we want and what we want to accomplish for ourselves? So, you know, for me, I've shared with you two, the six fundamental practices, right? We want to make sure this container that we have is as coherent and full of chi life force energy as possible. So always number one is prayer and gratitude. Getting so present. Also, if you're in such a fight flight response, that slow nose deep breathing to start to regulate the nervous system.

23:44But you can also look around and say, I can have this. I can have this. I can have this. Get your body present to something around. Look at a flower. Get your body here and now. Again, when I'm in that massage room, my son is in this extreme experience right now. All my job is to do is use my breath and become so present to my environment. And then I can soften the body.

24:15And then I can use my visualization for the result I want. And I know it's not easy. And I've been there a million times over. I can promise you it will work. I've seen miracles beyond miracles beyond miracles by doing just that little bit of getting your body coherent, soft, available for the miracle to occur. There's so much power in the breath. I'm learning that with you. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. The fundamentals that you just talked about, too, everyone that's listening, there's going to be an area beneath this podcast in the description where you guys can download this PDF.

24:55And then there's also the ability on that PDF if you guys are interested and you're loving this conversation with Kansas and you feel called to work with her more, there is a little barcode scanner on that PDF that you guys can barcode scan and see what it would be like to work with Kansas. I mean, I highly recommend it. I just bought my, what, third package with you? So the manifestation practices, you can give that whole one. Is that the one you have available? Mm-hmm. Perfect, perfect, yeah.

25:25So you talked about the breath work. You're specifically referring to the nine breath, right? Or anything in general. You know, I mean, if somebody doesn't even know what the nine breath is, I mean, God gave us life through our nostrils. It's free. Literally go outside. If you're in extreme fight-flight response, get your feet on Mother Earth. She's so good at transforming energy. Again, when we're in that state, the energy gets built up in the physical body. And when we are inside, shoes on, and it's got nowhere to disperse out of, it's going to extend it.

25:59That, again, becomes an addiction over time, right? The body gets addicted to that cortisol level. So we want to get the body just to understand right now nothing's happening. In this moment, I'm safe. There's nothing happening. I'm okay. Get your feet on the ground. Breathe. Soften the shoulders. Soften the body. We tend to tense up, relax, and then ask yourself, what do I want? Yeah. Believe me. I mean, I'm so – we all do, right?

26:31It's human nature. I mean, it's just how we protect ourselves. We want to fight and run, right? So, yeah, simple. And then, of course, we have a little bit more intensive breathing. The nine breath is going to really cleanse and clear. But even if you go and just do a couple – nose breathing is the best for me personally. There's so many techniques out there, of course. The nose breath goes through the limbic system to the parasympathetic, and a couple deep nose breaths in and out the nose is going to calm that nervous system really, really fast.

27:03And then you can say, okay, what do I want? If I had a choice, how do I want this outcome to be? And you do have a choice. We don't think we have a choice in that moment. We believe that the worst thing in the whole world is going to happen, everything is going to fall apart, and I'm going to die. That's literally where it goes. That's exactly where it goes. Exactly. Yep. Exactly. You're not the only one. I promise. Quick break. If you're finding this episode helpful so far, it would mean a lot if you could hit pause for just a second,

27:38leave a quick rating or a review or share it with someone who could benefit from it. Your support helps more women discover these tools to build muscle, lose fat, and feel confident. Thank you so much for being a part of this journey with me. So you're mentioning the nervous system. Are there signs or symptoms that indicate that someone's nervous system is dysregulated and holding them back? You know, again, you can kind of see it, right? And anxiety. Anytime the body is communicating with discomfort, the body will communicate.

28:11If there's anxiety, the body's telling you something's off, something's not right. Our natural state is to be in a peaceful state. Obviously, I'm a believer. Anytime I'm in that state, I'm going to ask God, please come in. Allow me to receive that peace within me. But you can see, you can feel blood pressure rises, anxiety rises. You're not sleeping. You're not eating. And these are all signs that the body is not regulated.

28:43And just those fundamentals of prayer, gratitude, breath work, movement, connection, nutrition, and expression. It's going to help the nervous system, help you sleep. So something that I've been working on with you is understanding what my body is trying to tell me. Because I'm so, or I used to be in my head a lot of the time. And that's where, you know, you know, you know. So how can someone, I guess I kind of had the answer, but I want to kind of frame it up so people can also, if they're going to resonate with what I'm saying.

29:23How can someone learn to understand what their body is telling them? Like some of them, like I didn't know that the pit in my stomach was associated to X, Y, and Z. Or the heart pounding was associated to X, Y, and Z. Or I don't know. Other elements that we will feel in our body. How do we, how can we like recognize what our body is trying to tell us more? Beautiful. And the body is always going to communicate, right? And most of the time it's going to be with discomfort. So let's say for example's sake, some, a woman is in a relationship and she has just a constant right shoulder pain.

30:00The right shoulder is going to indicate that she's taking on a lot of responsibility in the masculine side of the relationship. There's, I mentioned it the other night, you can heal your life. Louisa, hey, the back of a book is great. It's a great start. And that was one of the first books I read when I was 20. And I got super fascinated. Hello, Lily, my little healer girl. That was just any time I had any little boo-boo. Oh, let me see what my body is saying, right?

30:31So they're always going to get information back. And the body is going to communicate. And then just sitting with it. You don't have to have Louisa Hay book to ask. You can just sit with it. Okay, I can feel it. Sometimes, I mean, not sometimes, all the time, but if you, the tool of tapping into it and asking, does it have a shape? What color is it? Does it have a smell? Can I taste it? What does it want? What doesn't it want? Those will help.

31:02That will help make it tangible. And once it can be tangible, it can then be transformed. So, for example, that gut, that feeling in your gut, right? You're sitting with it. And that sensation, it's very common. A lot of people see, I see similar things all the time. Triangle, square, rectangle, whatever the shape is. It's black. It's dark. It tastes yucky. It smells. Metallic. Yeah. Metallic is very common, right?

31:33So, and that's very common energy. And the lung is a metal element. And sometimes when we have grief, the taste of metal can come into your mouth. So, beautiful. You can taste it, right? The body's saying, hmm, something's off. I can taste that metallic taste. I can smell you. Not always smelling with the nose. You're smelling with the nose behind the nose. So, it's like the imaginary. We have mental faculties to be able to identify these things.

32:05So, once you give it a form and a structure, you can then welcome it out of the body and put something more beautiful inside. I feel peace. I can release and let go of the thing that is holding me back. You don't have to know what it is. You can just give it some kind of form and acknowledgement because that's all it wants. Once you acknowledge it, and listen, Google's great. Hey, I got a left toe. It hurts. I stubbed it. What does that mean? You know, there's plenty of information out there.

32:36And once you've recognized it, you'll be surprised the energy will go and then you have no more discomfort. And I can say that as a true testament. I was on day one, A1, where you asked me particular things and then had to give it a shape. And it was in my throat. And it was, I forget what color it was, but it was metallic tasting. And then all of a sudden, after that, it gave me a lot more strength to be able to navigate. I believe it was expression. Yeah. Speaking our truth, right? And there's something holding back. And, you know, and you can be curious, like, okay, where did it come from?

33:08How old was I when I first couldn't speak my truth? What happened? Who was there at the time? And what's so great about going back to that three-dimensional view of what we said, we are multi-dimensional. So we can go back to that space as a three-year-old that didn't have a voice and was shut down and give her the opportunity to now have freedom and watch her unravel and become this version of the future self, of the self now, being able to speak her truth.

33:40So we have this ability not only to create the future, but to actually rewrite our past so it no longer holds us back. And it's so freeing. I mean, to me, it's so playful. I love it. There's so many angles you can go in and out. And as someone's speaking, you can feel the depth and you can feel the heaviness of a conversational word that's coming up. And then it's like, okay, that's curious. Let me go there. What's there? What's under there? So it doesn't have to be so serious too.

34:10Just be playful with it. Open to, okay, show me. Show me what's there. Yes. I love that. I love the work that you do, Kansas. More people need your healing. I love it. It's amazing. How do practices like energy alignment and energy healing and breath work, how do they help bypass mental blocks that keep us stuck? I think we kind of maybe have incorporated that a little bit already, right?

34:41So once we can identify, shift that fight-flight response, it no longer has any hold of frequency. So I like to dissolve energy and also remove roots. So now all of a sudden it doesn't even exist. So now you're in a neutral state. There's no fight-flight response. And once we're neutral, we then have a choice. Up until that moment in time, we don't actually have a choice. The body's trying to keep you safe. And it's fight-flight responses.

35:11And it's been doing it so long, it feels like we don't. We actually don't have a choice. My kitty keeps trying to come get love on the table. So getting that space to neutral so we can then decide, okay, it's not actually mine. It's now gone. It's complete. So now what I want it to look like. Then there's an aspect of attracting the manifestation of your dreams into your reality. And now all of a sudden it comes so damn fast.

35:42Then it's like, oh my God, I don't deserve it. Oh my gosh, I'm terrified. I'm scared. Why is it here now? I'm not ready. So now, again, we've got to help the body catch up to what we just asked for. And that is the process too. We ask for something we don't know. We don't know what it looks like because we've never had it. So when it shows up, it feels a little differently to what we expect. And it can be overwhelming. So then there's more processing to do.

36:12It's opening up that receiver, right? And that's the biggest thing. Actually, that should have been number one. Our receivers are so blocked. This container that we want all these magnificent, beautiful manifestations to come in. There's literally no space. So opening that receiver, cleansing and opening and feeling safe. Nothing can hurt you. You're made in the image of God. You're immortal. There's nothing that can take that away. So I firmly believe that now. I definitely would say months ago. You know me.

36:43I came from the masculine, full-on, feminine side of me. It was non-existent. It's way more out there now and playful. But that can be hard to kind of grasp and navigate. I always thought that I had to work, work, work, work, work. And what you're saying is like, I mean, God, now I'm learning God has a plan. And it doesn't, he's working it all out for you. And yeah, we have a plan and he laughs. Yeah, exactly. But yeah, everything you're saying, it's just so spot on.

37:15And when you do ask for the things that you want, be ready. What they said in church the other day was, and this is kind of a little off topic, but they wrote, they said, let me find it. They said, don't ask God to have something you can't hold. Perfect. Exactly. How would you like, how would you break that down or unpack that statement? You know, and it's a perfect when it comes to exactly what we're saying, right?

37:46We have this container full of all these belief systems. So you can imagine a house, right? You've got all this furniture. You want to bring new furniture in. You've got to get the old furniture out first. There's literally no space for it. So yes, we ask God for all these things. And someone gives us a compliment. And we're like, oh, no, no, no, thanks. And then we want these massive manifestations, but we can't even accept a compliment. We can't even accept. I was really, really weird around getting gifts. And I'm super aware of it now.

38:17I'm an excellent receiver. I love gifts. It's amazing. But I noticed myself, someone would give me a gift, and it's almost like it didn't exist. Like I would completely ignore it and just carry on talking like nothing happened. It was like this bizarre experience around receiving. So the receiver, and that's, we ask God, you've got to be prepared and ready because God's going to give it to you. God will give it to you. You ask for it. But if you have no space for it, it's not going to be, you're not going to be able to keep it.

38:48And you're not going to be able to actually fully receive it. So I love that. Yeah. I took it into it because he was talking about 2025 as he was preaching his sermon. And so many people come into the new year with resolutions and wanting to go after some goals and the things that they aspire to be or the person that they want to become. But then they start asking all of these things that they're sometimes not ready to receive or to hold on to it.

39:19And it's, he was talking more to the point of you got to show God that you're ready to receive the gift too as well. Like you got to start putting in the work or something along those lines. No, no. And that's a hundred percent right. And also what happens is we get some commitment checkers and we also get, we get imposters too. So things will come in your place and you're like, oh my gosh, here it is. And I've had these experiences.

39:49And one of these experiences that happened was literally like something on my vision board and it happened. The experience happened and then it was like just complete, like my feeling, my gut, something was wrong and off. And then it ended up being really not good at all. But what I did, what I got in that moment was the work that I've done, it's no longer fight, fight, response. It was an accurate feeling of this is not okay. So it was such a great experience for me because then it made me super aware that I've done the work now.

40:24It's not me shutting it off. It's actually me being so super aware, even though it looked exactly what I wanted, I could feel it was the imposter. And we will get these commitment checkers along the way. Are you ready for it? Okay, let me see. And, you know, and then that's the thing too. Once the manifestations start to come into your field, because it's all energy and it's all happening, it's all available now. You might see something come in.

40:56Don't hold on to it and grab it as it, that's it. Because sometimes it's the stepping stone to it. Just be like, wow, I can see it's in the field. Maybe somebody else gets what you're asking for. Don't get disappointed by it. But it's available and it's there. Get excited with it. Yeah. I love that. Yes. While we're kind of on the topic of the new year, what practices or tools would you recommend to help people set some aligned intentions for themselves to follow through with inspired action? Yeah, I think number one is just really every single morning.

41:30Spend five to ten minutes. What are the non-ideals? What are the things that show up? The belief systems that are in the way. What are those mindsets? What are the words that you're speaking out? Getting super aware. We have to have awareness first, right? And as you sit with those, again, the gratitude, like, wow, thank you so much. There's a little girl inside there or little boy that made a decision at a very young age.

42:00I'm not worthy. I'm not lovable because something happened. So all these belief systems then that vibrate out into the universe attract that experience to prove you right. So now this young girl becomes this teenager, becomes this adult that has all this evidence that she's not wanted. She's unlovable. So we need to break those down first and be super, super, super gentle on ourselves. And in the trigger is the transformation.

42:33So we take things personally, right? Somebody does something and they're doing it to us. Oh, my gosh, I'm hurting so bad that person did that to me. No one's doing anything. Be curious. Okay, what part of me, how am I attracting that? That's when I got super aware when the secret came out that I'm creating this abusive relationship. Are you out of your mind? Like, what the hell? So I'm like, okay, good. Let's look at that. What part of me, how am I showing up? What part of me believes that I deserve something so horrific?

43:06And I started just breaking those down and then just being curious, embracing the discomfort when those uncomfortable things come and they will, as the new reality is starting, just say, and I love it. And I love it. It hurts. And I love it. Great. Let's follow that. I know. It's horrible. And then, of course, the art of receiving, right? We have these specific goals. So we can create a specific goal, non-specific, and then we create just the magical things daily.

43:38So a specific goal would be I want a house. It's on the beach. I want this furniture. I want that furniture, whatever it is. The non-specific is, oh, my gosh, when I walk into the space, I feel alive. I just smell the ocean. It just feels good. It makes me feel connected. That's the non-specific to the specific. Often the specific goals can actually keep us trapped because this or better, right? We want to open up that space. And then that's happening. It's happening anyway. But now we want to play in the magic.

44:09My girlfriend, there's a couple of us weekly. We do a mastermind and we create something. This week, we're like, okay, we're going to create a baby octopus or an octopus to come into our experience. So my girlfriend, Candice, she's in South Africa. She owns a men's only hair salon. She always annoys me. She gets them faster than me. But I'm also there. But she said, the next guy that comes into her chair, he starts telling her about this octopus that he found on the beach. And he was telling her all about how it changed shape and this and that and the next thing.

44:41So, yeah, it's great. And then, of course, I mean, we've seen octopuses. This is this week. We've seen them all week long. But we're like, okay, let's embody. What is the octopus's frequency? Let's embody. They're smart. They're curious. They can shape shift. So we want to have the specific, nonspecific, and then the play. We want to see the reality. It's something that we're manifesting come into our field. That gives us a point of reference and excitement that the other things are possible.

45:11But we tend to hold on to the specific. We don't see it yet. We get doubts. We get like, oh, it's not working. It's happening. Let it go and play in these little spaces where you can see the result of. So whoever's watching, I want you to think of an octopus and let us know when you find it. And you can't look for it. It's just going to come to you. It's just going to show up. You'll see an octopus. I can't wait till I see an octopus. I know. Yeah, good. Tell me.

45:41I'm going to really text you. You're good. I want to know all about it. And then using the visualization, right? Our mind is a powerful tool. Sitting 15 minutes, three times a day. Seeing, feeling, imagining how that experience is going to be. And every time you're at a light, do a one minute flash meditation. Just say it out loud. Oh my God, I can't believe it. I'm in the house of my dreams. It's incredible. You must see the bedspread. It's so comfortable. All my girlfriends come around all the time and I love it.

46:12We're eating yummy food. Like speak it out and play with it. So yeah. That is such a powerful way of thinking about the goals and what you want to go after and setting aligned intentions. Like people always just say, hey, I want to lose like 10 pounds. I want to lose 20 pounds. I want to lose 50 pounds. But like, that's it. And then by the end of the year, they didn't accomplish it. And then they get discouraged or they put themselves down. But instead it's like, I always ask people why, or I love what you said, non-specifics in terms of like, well, basically like if I'm understanding it, it's like, what is it, how

46:44does it make you feel? Or what is it like walking into that type of body or having that type of body or, you know? Absolutely. Yeah. I feel so strong. My body just shapes, transforms it rapidly. It's so incredible. I feel more alive than I've ever felt before. I'm so hydrated. Things magnetically come to me. This body is just like, wow, 10 pounds gone in a month. It's amazing. Like, speak into it, feel it. Yep. Or you could achieve that, right? From what I'm understanding and not necessarily lose 10 pounds, but your body could still look,

47:17I mean, because weight is weight. Well, so no, yes and no, right? So what happens with a physical body too is we need to accept it exactly as it is before we can transform into something else, right? So by feeling, thinking, acting, being in that physical shape or 10 pounds lighter, the body, as if it is now, the body will then catch up to that feeling and declaring it is so.

47:50So living in that 10 pound less body now, as if it is already happened. I got it. That makes sense. That brings me back to when I first started my journey and how I was thinking about, because for nine months, I prepped for a bodybuilding competition, but the beginning of my body, body, body competition, I didn't have the body I have when I stepped on stage nine months later, but I was already envisioning myself in that body. And you looked great. I saw those pictures. Thank you. Yeah, I was like unconsciously competent at that time is what I like to say.

48:22Like I had the vision. I love that. I saw the vision every day. And that's essentially what you're saying here too as well. Beautiful. So it's the same, right? We're imprinting. So this future version of ourselves here, there's a formless substance that is available for us to imprint. So the same as we have these little layers behind us, we now have this future version that we imprint through visualization. But now with quantum physics, we can bend time and merge it into the physical body that it's in now. So it'll rapidly happen compared to before.

48:55Yeah. Yes. Yes. Yes. I love that. Yes. Yes. Yes. So powerful because people can achieve their goals in three months and six months and nine months and nine years. Yeah. Depending on what you want, right? Exactly. Well, as we start to wrap up, I want to talk a little bit about your journey and expertise. What has been the most rewarding aspect of your work as an energy healer? There's so many paths to drive. Like just to watch and see, like just even you just like the stepping into that of who you know you're meant to be.

49:30But, you know, just I'm actually speaking at another event tonight. It's the, I can't remember the title of it off the top of my head. The Impact of the Immeasurable, I think. But anyway, two weeks ago, I had a lady reach out to me. She's been following me for a while. Nine years ago with Qigong. She came to a seminar. She's done some of my work. And she reached out and she's like, Candice, I have to go into surgery in a week's time. My heart is, the doctor's like, you need immediate surgery.

50:03It's blocked. There's like literally no frequency in the front of your heart. It's dense. It's dark. Like we need to get in there immediately. So I'm like, okay, let's do some energetic surgery because that's what I'm doing. I'm working on someone's field. I'm creating that energy frequency, clearing the distortions, energetically putting it back to the frequency of God, blending the heart, removing some of the, she had a treble hook. These are all energy things I see.

50:33Treble hook in her heart that were released. And it came from in the womb with her mom, cleaned her up, all done, heart looked beautiful and just kept saying, intend and say, I've got a beautiful, healthy heart. All is good. And I said to her, you know, it was next week. I'm like, wouldn't it be amazing if they went in there and you had a healthy heart? She went in on the Friday, messaged me on Saturday. Within five minutes of the surgery, the doctor stopped and said, you have zero block and you have a healthy heart. And she's written me a testimonial.

51:04That to me, because the work that we're doing together, I know there's this transformation, but that is a actual tangible result. And God works for me every day. And to see the miracles is, I don't care how many times it happens. It's always a miracle. But that to me is like, wow. That's incredible. That's incredible. Speechless. Me too. And I know it happens because I see it in the field.

51:37But to actually get that within a week. Actually, that's what I said to her. The healing already happened, right? The heart was already healthy. Now we've got to get the body to catch up. And that's the tools of the visualization, breath work, eating healthy. But within that short space of time, she had zero block, zero block. They were going to put a stint in her heart. And he said, your heart is healthy. That's exactly the words he used. That's me.

52:07That's the Lord's work. That's God's work. I'm reading Matthew right now. He's one of my 70-day disciples I signed up for. Love it. I'm going to read the New Testament in 70 days. Yay. Reading all about Jesus' sermon. Well, as a believer, right, as a believer, we get to perform miracles in his name. And I know for a fact that Jesus performs miracles for me every single day. And to see a result like that, that's why I'm like, wow, Jesus.

52:40Wow. That's insane. And then you were, sorry, go ahead. No, no, no. Carry on. You even shared with me last night two stories. One, you showed me like an energy field was on a woman's shoulder. And she felt she, you share the story. I don't want to say it. So, yeah, I mean, it's amazing that we capture that on camera too. So those are two pictures I'm taking with me tonight too. Yeah. Yeah. That was, I mean, the other one I can, not that one specifically.

53:13But anyway, so when I saw her, you could tell her coloring was off. Everything was off. And she's like, Candice, and that was a projection and a curse created from her boyfriend's ex-wife. So this is how powerful curses can be too, right? There was this energy frequency on her shoulder. And she's like, Candice, I just feel like something sucking the life out of me, right? Yeah. How we caught it on camera, I don't know. But you can see that entity, that thing that was right on her shoulder. So when I'm doing energetic work, obviously I'm praying.

53:47I always create this golden bubble that we can bring that frequency into that space, dissolve it and scramble it and dissolve it so it's done and completely doesn't go anywhere else. And then infuse her with God's love. And look at the difference. That was 20 minutes. That's amazing. When you sent me that, my jaw dropped. So cool. So cool. And to get evidence, I mean, Joe Dispenza's doing all the work on evidence and, you know, all the scientific research, which is amazing.

54:20Because 23 years ago when I started, I was a weirdo and everyone thought I was crazy. But now we have evidence. And this is evidence, you know, which is great. Like you get to actually see God's work in action. And I'm always in awe of God using me like that. Really, it's an honor. You truly are doing God's work. And it's so incredible. Everyone listening to this episode right now, I know it's a little bit out of the normal that we bring to the podcast. But I really hope that you guys heard everything that Candice has been sharing with you because there's so much power in her words.

54:56That if you take what she's sharing with you and also what I'm going to share with you in the description below this podcast, which is the PDF. If this is free. I mean, you just heard Candice's words for free. This PDF is free. And what's in that PDF is the things that she's taught me through our practice together that you guys can literally take and implement into your life. And without a doubt, I mean, there's definitely going to be some type of change. If you are willing to put the work in the focus to develop the skills, you will be unstoppable, right?

55:28Yeah, exactly. Well, get rid of the fight, flight responses. Get super clear and curious, right? And it's, yeah, I love it. Amazing. Yeah, that's definitely where it starts. The getting super curious. Yes, that's where it all started with me too. And look where it took you. There's definitely got to be a podcast in the future that where we reconnect and we share more of the journey that we've been on together because I know it will resonate so much. I'd love it. In a particular way. I'd also be happy to facilitate the actual session too live.

55:59That would be fun. Woo! Woo! Maybe not. I know. I'm so, you know me. I'm always open. And in any way that I know could help someone, I'm so down for it. I mean, how fun would that be? Messy. It would be fun. You'll be hiding. I'm trying to hide all sorts of things. You can't hide. That's, you know, the saddest thing is, though, no one can hide a thing from me, which is, and it's okay. You know, I...

56:55Take it from me. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide.

57:25I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can't hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide.

57:55I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. I can hide. If it doesn't feel good to you, they will get their own stuff exposed. And all of a sudden, you're not recognizable. And it's uncomfortable for those around you. So it's really important to have that safe container and awareness and conversations with those you love for sure. Amen. 100%. Well, Kansas, thank you so much for joining us here today. Love it. And thank you for all of the insights that you've shared with us in terms of energy healing, manifestation, and transformation.

58:29And it's all been truly so inspiring. And you are doing God's work. And you need, I'm so thankful for the work that you do on a daily basis for all of the women that, and people that have come into your space. You've made literally healing happen and transformations happen. And I just can't thank you. So thank you enough. And everyone that's listening here, remember you guys, that you guys can check out the PDF that is in the description below. And thank you, Kansas. I just appreciate your time. Oh, my gosh.

58:59Such a pleasure. Such a pleasure. And again, I just love you to bits. And I'm just excited to see what's next. Can't wait. Let's go. It's been so fun. All right. Love you. Love you too. So much. And everyone, thanks for listening. Hey, really quick before you go. I have one small favor to ask. If this episode brought you value or sparked something in you, take just a moment to hit that review button. Your rating and review make all of the difference. Helping more women discover the tools they need to transform the fitness and their confidence.

59:33It takes less than a minute, but it can change the path of someone else's journey. Thank you so much for leaving that review. I appreciate you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Thank you so much.

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