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What should I do when I don't feel like working out?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

The short answer

Expect it, and start anyway. Nikkiey says not feeling like it is resistance, not a reason to stop: your old self trying to keep you comfortable. Lean on discipline instead of motivation, which comes and goes, have a minimum version of your workout for hard days, and just get your gym clothes on. Showing up is the win.

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  1. Nikkiey on why resistance is your old self, and a reason to lean in

    Plays from 16:49 · Ep. 269: Working Out but Not Seeing Results? Here's Why

  2. Getting dressed and doing the first set when you still don't feel like it

    Plays from 6:07 · Ep. 49: How to Stop Making Excuses and Actually Work Out

  3. Building a minimum viable workout that still counts on hard days

    Plays from 17:05 · Ep. 352: How to Stay Consistent With Fitness When Motivation Fades

  4. Why discipline beats motivation, which ebbs and flows

    Plays from 21:21 · Ep. 95: How to Keep Promises to Yourself and Stay Consistent

  5. Separate feelings from actions: you don't need to feel ready to start

    Plays from 23:43 · Ep. 352: How to Stay Consistent With Fitness When Motivation Fades

The full answer

On Ep. 269, Nikkiey is blunt: there will be days you do not feel like doing this, period. That resistance is your old self trying to keep the inconsistency running, because it's familiar and it feels safe. She's also realistic that resistance will probably win some days, and that's okay. What counts is showing up the next day no matter what happened the day before. Her suggestion when you're getting back into it is to track your show-ups instead of your results at first. Cross off the days you hit your non-negotiable, and that builds momentum and self-trust.

The bigger shift is to stop waiting for motivation. On Ep. 352, Nikkiey explains that motivation is an emotion: temporary, unpredictable and outside your control. The goal isn't to stay motivated. It's to build a system that works when you aren't. On Ep. 95 she says the same thing in her own terms: motivation ebbs and flows, while discipline carries you regardless of how you feel. Her own trick is putting her phone alarm in the living room so she has to physically get out of bed to turn it off.

What that looks like on a hard day:

  • Have a minimum viable version of your workout that still counts. If you can't do the full hour, maybe it's 30 minutes (Ep. 352).
  • Don't negotiate. Separate feelings from actions and just start.
  • Get your gym clothes on and get into the gym. Nikkiey calls that half the battle on Ep. 49. Then put distractions away and do the first set.
  • Ask how you'll feel at the end of the night if the excuse wins.

None of this means something is wrong with you. A plan that only works when you feel like it was never going to hold up.

From The WarriorBabe Show with Nikkiey Stott. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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