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Why do I always quit a few weeks into a new program?

Answered by Nikkiey Stott and her guests · Updated

The short answer

Usually because motivation runs out before visible results arrive. Nikkiey explains that the excitement of a new program fades around weeks three to four, while your body is still changing internally. If you also tried to change too many things at once, quitting feels logical right when the plan is starting to work.

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  1. Nikkiey on why the wall hits when the newness fades and results haven't arrived

    Plays from 6:34 · Ep. 407: Why You're Not Seeing Workout Results Yet After 40

  2. Why the middle phase feels like failing even when it's working

    Plays from 8:41 · Ep. 327: Why Women Quit Fitness Right Before Results Show

  3. Motivation is an emotion and it always runs out a few weeks in

    Plays from 2:48 · Ep. 113: How to Stay Consistent When Motivation Runs Out

  4. Trying to change 50 things at once is why people give up

    Plays from 0:00 · Ep. 325: How to Stay Consistent With Fitness in the New Year

  5. Why the moment mistakes hit is the most crucial point not to quit

    Plays from 17:50 · Ep. 31: How to Stop Quitting Your Fitness Plan After a Mistake

The full answer

On Ep. 407, Nikkiey describes the timing. Weeks one and two run on the energy of something new. By weeks three and four that newness fades into routine, and the results physiologically aren't there yet to carry you. Nothing holds you in place except your decision to keep going. On Ep. 113 she adds that motivation is an emotion, so it ebbs and flows and reliably dips around three to four weeks. She says motivation usually follows action, not the other way around. On Ep. 327 she explains that most women quit because progress doesn't look the way they expected. She describes fat loss happening internally before it shows externally, so the middle phase feels like failing even when it's working.

The plan itself can set you up to quit. On Ep. 325, Nikkiey says that trying to change 50 things at once, like water, sleep, five workouts a week, vitamins and stretching, leaves you overwhelmed within two, four or eight weeks. She suggests starting smaller:

  • If you're starting from scratch, maybe two workouts a week.
  • If you're more advanced, pick three things to focus on.
  • Layer in new things after about three weeks.

On Ep. 23, she adds that a habit started on motivation stays temporary until it becomes part of who you are.

When you hit the wall, she gives a few practical ways to handle it. On Ep. 31, Nikkiey calls this the most crucial point in the process. She says mistakes are evidence you're learning, not proof you should quit. Ask why the slip happened, then pick it back up tomorrow instead of waiting for Monday. On Ep. 327 she warns that every quiet quit reinforces the belief that you can't trust yourself. Confidence comes from following through, even on a 30% day, and from staying when it's boring. And on Ep. 407 she points out that the women who transform aren't the ones who never hit the wall. They just have someone in their corner telling them to give it more time.

From The WarriorBabe Show with Nikkiey Stott. For education, not medical advice: talk to your doctor about your own health.

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